If you’ve ever seen West Side Story, then you’re familiar with the scene where Tony and Maria see each other for the first time. The room becomes blurry, the scene stills, and all that is left is the gaze between two people in love. Your wedding day should be no different. While there may be a million things happening before, during, and after your wedding--it’s important to keep the perspective on what really matters. You and your forever partner.
Susan Moran from That’s It! Wedding Concepts wanted to convey just that in this simple yet elegant photoshoot. Choosing nature as her backdrop, she wanted to emphasize that “you can just be who you are in an environment you’re comfortable in on your wedding day.” After a decade running her business, she wanted to inspire future newlyweds and remind them that they are the reason for celebration on their wedding day. Here are her top three tips for ensuring that your special day is focused on you.
Remember the Why
Every couple has a “how we met” story. Whether it was by chance or on a blind date arranged by your best friend,it doesn’t change that you met and fell in love. Moran encourages all couples to remember how they felt when they first figured out they were with the one. Was it when he handed you your coffee one morning, or was it when she made space in her dresser for your clothes when you slept over? No matter how, what is important is that you carry those feelings with you on your wedding day.
Feel the Enormity
It’s no secret that most people have pre-day jitters. Couples may even question if they’re making the right decision by getting married. Moran says these apprehensions are good! But how? By asking yourself these questions, you’re realizing the enormity of what is about to happen. Your wedding day is a big deal, but what comes after is even bigger. Yes, weddings are fun and are a day of celebration, but weddings also symbolize the promise and commitment you’re making to the person you love. Bringing it down to what really counts and realizing the enormity will help you stay focused on you and your partner.
Take in the Moment
Whether you have 25 or 275 people at your wedding, it’s essential to take in the moment. Moran emphasizes that your combination of guests may never all be in the same room again. This is a time when you’re surrounded by those who support and cherish your union. Take a breath and take in the moment before you run around to greet everyone. Your guests are at your wedding because of you!
Your wedding day is a celebration of the love between you and your partner. It’s also a commitment, a promise, and a party all in one! By keeping the perspective on why you chose to marry, you’re taking a step back and bringing the day back to its core. As Moran says, “it’s the beginning of a new chapter in your life’s journey together.” It’s simply the heart of the matter.
Vendors:
Planner: That’s It! Wedding Concepts,
Photography: Emerald Stone Photography
Venue: Fox Run Weddings, LLC
Florist: Jeffrey’s Flowers
Dress: Taylored for You Bridal
Suit: Top Line Tuxedos
